The Clarity Series #1 – This is Us

Discover your family values so you can live well, be unified and pass them on to your kids. I love the statement, “This is us.” Its bold, confident and shows the person has done an internal journey of discovering who they are and what they stand for. I don’t see arrogance as much as inner

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How to Navigate Change TOGETHER

Working out what the new world looks like as a team Life right now is changing. Schools are empty, homes are full and movement is restricted. Most workplaces are setting up their employees to work from home too. And, surrounding all of this is a climate of fear and a never-ending cycle of what seems

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How to Have an Important Conversation

How to have a conversation about something that matters A talk that moves us towards agreement is different to other conversations we might have. There’s the end of workday debrief. The making plans conversation. The times when you’re having fun connecting. The I’m-just-letting-you-know-because-this-will-impact-us-in-some-way chat. But let’s talk about a unity building chat. It might get

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The Perfect Stress Reliever

Why you need to schedule sex when life is stressful. Right now the COVID-19 drama has many of us stuck at home and no one knows when it will end. Hopefully, this means you and your spouse are enjoying plenty of great sex.  But maybe it doesn’t. If you’ve got all the kids at home,

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Holding hands is powerful

Holding hands can be a really powerful thing. Sure, it’s a way of loving through physical touch but it can say so much to your spouse. Holding hands says says I’m with you. You’re mine. I belong to you, I’m here. You’re safe. I’m home when I’m with you. We’re together. We’re in love. We

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How to get CLOSER during COVID-19

The world is in an incredible state of upheaval right now and my marriage Insta feed is pretty flooded with stuff about sex right now. Sure, go for it. If you’re quarantined with each other and you can make love multiple times a day, try new positions and take your sex life to whole new

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How To Keep Falling In Love

“We just… fell out of love.” We hear about it happening. We might even know someone who it happened to. Sadly, sometimes people aimlessly wander out of love. Falling out of love doesn’t happen because of one incident or conflict or even a single underlying issue or problem. It usually happens as a result of drift.

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2018 Marriage Goal? Deeper Intimacy

No matter what 2017 meant for your marriage you can make 2018 a better year. How? Simply by opening up and talking deeper. What we are suggesting is so ridiculously effective we’re baffled more couples don’t do it. Open up your heart and actually talk about what’s in there. And we totally understand this could

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Train Your Spouse to Love and Understand You

One piece of advice we’ve found ourselves telling couples lately is that we need to coach or train our spouse to love us and understand us.  We’re not putting them down. It’s the reality of two different people living in an intimate relationship where being on the same page is important.  Our spouse is unlikely

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