How to have a conversation about something that matters A talk that moves us towards agreement is different to other conversations we might have. There’s the end of workday debrief. The making plans conversation. The times when you’re having fun connecting. The I’m-just-letting-you-know-because-this-will-impact-us-in-some-way chat. But let’s talk about a unity building chat. It might get
Why you need to schedule sex when life is stressful. Right now the COVID-19 drama has many of us stuck at home and no one knows when it will end. Hopefully, this means you and your spouse are enjoying plenty of great sex. But maybe it doesn’t. If you’ve got all the kids at home,
Holding hands can be a really powerful thing. Sure, it’s a way of loving through physical touch but it can say so much to your spouse. Holding hands says says I’m with you. You’re mine. I belong to you, I’m here. You’re safe. I’m home when I’m with you. We’re together. We’re in love. We
The world is in an incredible state of upheaval right now and my marriage Insta feed is pretty flooded with stuff about sex right now. Sure, go for it. If you’re quarantined with each other and you can make love multiple times a day, try new positions and take your sex life to whole new
“We just… fell out of love.” We hear about it happening. We might even know someone who it happened to. Sadly, sometimes people aimlessly wander out of love. Falling out of love doesn’t happen because of one incident or conflict or even a single underlying issue or problem. It usually happens as a result of drift.
Everything, always, comes down to this. Yep. Everything. No, it’s not the typical problem subjects like sex, communication, money, your mother in law or your kids. It all boils down, all the time, no matter what is going on, to one simple thing that everyone is dealing with literally ALL. THE. TIME.
No matter what 2017 meant for your marriage you can make 2018 a better year. How? Simply by opening up and talking deeper. What we are suggesting is so ridiculously effective we’re baffled more couples don’t do it. Open up your heart and actually talk about what’s in there. And we totally understand this could
One piece of advice we’ve found ourselves telling couples lately is that we need to coach or train our spouse to love us and understand us. We’re not putting them down. It’s the reality of two different people living in an intimate relationship where being on the same page is important. Our spouse is unlikely
We’ve had 21 Christmases together and even though they’ve all looked a little different we managed to still be in love and our relationship strong after each one. We’ve gone through many stages of family and kids, extended family and financial challenges but a few things have helped us stay connected and strong through the
We run a small business in our home creating custom designed cookies. We launch our Christmas range as early as we can (normally mid-November) and we get booked out in a few days! The next three weeks are crazy as we bake, ice, decorate and package hundreds of biscuits for our loyal customers. We are